From Stuck to Unstoppable: How to Spot When It’s Time for a Career Pivot
- Coach Vess

- Nov 18
- 3 min read
Here’s the deal: you’re not broken, unmotivated, or lazy. You’re just stuck. And if you’ve been dragging yourself to work every morning with the enthusiasm of a sloth at a spin class, it might be the universe’s way of saying: “Hey, buddy - it’s pivot o’clock.”
But most people ignore the signs because change is scary. So they stay in jobs that drain them, careers that don’t fit anymore, and identities that expired five years ago.
Let’s get brutally honest. If you’ve been waiting for permission to switch lanes, this is it.
Why People Stay Stuck
• Fear of the unknown. You’d rather stay miserable in the familiar than risk thriving in the unknown.
• Golden handcuffs. The salary and benefits are good, so you trade joy for security.
• Ego attachment. You’ve worked hard for that title, and walking away feels like failure.
• External pressure. Family, friends, and LinkedIn all expect you to stay in your lane.
Sound familiar? Exactly.
Signs It’s Time for a Career Pivot
Not sure if you’re overdue for a change? Let’s check:
1. You’re Bored Out of Your Mind
If you’ve mastered the job to the point where you could do it half-asleep, guess what? You’re not growing - you’re decaying.
2. You Dread Mondays (and Tuesdays… and Wednesdays)
Everyone gets the occasional Sunday Scaries, but if you’re living in a permanent state of “please let me win the lottery,” it’s time to pivot.
3. You’ve Outgrown the Role
Sometimes the job doesn’t suck - you’ve just evolved. If your values, skills, or goals don’t match the role anymore, you’re running on autopilot.
4. Your Health is Suffering
Headaches, insomnia, anxiety, stress-eating cupcakes like it’s your side hustle - your body is telling you what your brain refuses to admit.
5. You’re Jealous of Other People’s Careers
If you find yourself scrolling Instagram wishing you were doing something else - NEWSFLASH! - that’s your soul knocking on the door.
6. You’re Numb
The opposite of passion isn’t hate - it’s apathy. If you don’t care anymore, that’s your sign.
The Lies You Tell Yourself to Avoid Pivoting
• “I’ll stick it out another year.” Translation: you’ll waste another year of your life.
• “It’s too late to start over.” Translation: you’re scared. (Another Newsflash for you: it’s never too late.)
• “What if I fail?” Translation: what if you thrive?
• “Other people will judge me.” Translation: they’re too busy with their own stuff to care.
How to Pivot Like a Pro
Alright, let’s get practical. Pivoting doesn’t mean storming into HR tomorrow yelling “I quit, suckers!” It means being intentional.
1. Get Honest
Ask yourself: “If money wasn’t a factor, what would I be doing?” The answer holds clues.
2. Audit Your Skills
What skills are transferable? Spoiler: more than you think. Leadership, communication, problem-solving - these work anywhere.
3. Test the Waters
Side hustle, volunteer, take a class. Dip your toes before cannonballing.
4. Build a Safety Net
Save money, update your resume, start networking (the real kind, not the fake kind).
5. Create a Pivot Plan
Map out the steps and timeline. A pivot doesn’t have to be chaotic - it can be strategic.
6. Upgrade Your Mindset
Stop seeing a pivot as “starting over.” It’s not. It’s leveling up.
Tough-Love Pep Talk
Listen, buddy. Staying stuck isn’t loyalty - it’s fear. And fear doesn’t get to run your life unless you let it.
The truth? You already know it’s time. You’ve felt it in your gut. You’ve whispered it in the shower. You’ve written about it in your journal.
Now you just need to stop ignoring the signs and start trusting yourself enough to pivot.
From Stuck to Unstoppable
A pivot isn’t failure - it’s evolution. And the only real mistake is staying stuck when your soul is begging you to move.
So here’s your wake-up call: you don’t need another year of misery to confirm it’s time. You need courage. You need clarity. And you need action.
👉 Ready to stop rotting in the wrong career and finally pivot into something aligned with who you are now? Let’s do this together. Book a coaching session today and let’s map your next unstoppable move.



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