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The Delusion of Constant Motion
Look around. Everyone is " swamped ." Everyone is " slammed ." We wear our overflowing calendars and endless to-do lists as a badge of honor, a public declaration of our importance. We’re all running a race to nowhere, convinced that the more sweat we produce, the more valuable we become. But here’s the cold, hard truth: a lot of you aren’t hard workers. You’re just busy fools. You’re a master of motion, not of action. You spend all day checking emails, attending pointless me

Coach Vess
Nov 254 min read


From Stuck to Unstoppable: How to Spot When It’s Time for a Career Pivot
Here’s the deal: you’re not broken, unmotivated, or lazy. You’re just stuck. And if you’ve been dragging yourself to work every morning with the enthusiasm of a sloth at a spin class, it might be the universe’s way of saying: “Hey, buddy - it’s pivot o’clock.” But most people ignore the signs because change is scary. So they stay in jobs that drain them, careers that don’t fit anymore, and identities that expired five years ago. Let’s get brutally honest. If you’ve been waiti

Coach Vess
Nov 183 min read


Stop Glorifying Burnout: Why Hustle Culture is Killing Your Career
The Hustle Lie We’re All Buying You’ve heard it a million times: “Sleep is for the weak,” “Hustle harder,” “If you’re not burning out, you’re not trying.” Cute. Toxic. And a lie. Hustle culture loves to dress exhaustion up as ambition so we keep grinding until we’re empty. But here’s the truth nobody flattering influencers will tell you: burnout doesn’t prove your worth - it erases it. It destroys creativity, torpedoes performance, and makes you the exact opposite of indispen

Coach Vess
Nov 115 min read


The Salary You Accept = The Standards You Set
Let’s cut the fluff: your salary isn’t just a number. It’s a reflection of what you believe you’re worth - and what you’re willing to tolerate. Every time you accept less than you deserve, you’re not just settling for a pay. You’re broadcasting to the world (and yourself): “This is my standard. This is how much I think I’m worth.” Painful? Yes. Necessary to hear? Absolutely. Because here’s the truth: money talks - but so do your boundaries. So if you’re tired of living pay-to

Coach Vess
Oct 264 min read


What is Life Coaching and how do you know you need it
Are you looking to unlock your potential and achieve your goals in life, wellness, or career? Look no further than a specialised life...

Coach Vess
Jun 21, 20242 min read
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