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Your Standards Aren’t Too High, Your Boundaries are Too Low
The Myth of “Too Picky” Raise your hand if you’ve ever been told: “Maybe your standards are too high, babe. Maybe that’s why you’re still single.” Now raise your other hand if you’ve ever thought, “Wait… am I the problem? Am I asking for too much?” Spoiler alert: No, you’re not asking for too much. You’re just asking the wrong people. And if you keep lowering the bar just so Chad-with-a-complex doesn’t feel “intimidated,” then yes - you’ll keep attracting relationships that m

Coach Vess
Oct 305 min read


The Harsh Reality of Your "Love" Story
Let's get one thing straight: You're not a hero for staying in a toxic relationship. You're a hostage. And the idea that you can "fix" this person, or that your love will somehow magically transform them, is a fantasy you've created to avoid the terrifying truth. You are sacrificing your sanity, your self-worth, and your future on the altar of a broken promise. This isn't love. It’s a cycle of chaos and manipulation. One day they're telling you you're the greatest thing that'

Coach Vess
Oct 284 min read
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