Why Your Messages Are Getting Ghosted Look. I get it. Texting feels safe. You can craft the perfect thought, over-edit your tone, and then hit send like you’re launching a missile of charm. But here’s the cold, caffeinated truth: most of us are weaponising our keyboards into attractiveness death machines. Long paragraphs at 2AM, emotional novels after a first date, and sequel messages that scream neediness? That’s not connection. That’s a slow-mo swipe-left. If the people you

You've seen the movies. You've heard the songs. "You complete me." "I can't live without you." Let me be clear: this is not love. This is codependency, and it's a disease that’s disguised as devotion. You've been sold a romanticised version of love that says you need to find your "other half" to be whole. But here's the tough truth: if you need someone else to complete you, you’re not ready for a relationship. You're ready for a therapist. Love isn't about two halves trying t

The Myth of “Too Picky” Raise your hand if you’ve ever been told: “Maybe your standards are too high, babe. Maybe that’s why you’re still single.” Now raise your other hand if you’ve ever thought, “Wait… am I the problem? Am I asking for too much?” Spoiler alert: No, you’re not asking for too much. You’re just asking the wrong people. And if you keep lowering the bar just so Chad-with-a-complex doesn’t feel “intimidated,” then yes - you’ll keep attracting relationships that m

Let's get one thing straight: You're not a hero for staying in a toxic relationship. You're a hostage. And the idea that you can "fix" this person, or that your love will somehow magically transform them, is a fantasy you've created to avoid the terrifying truth. You are sacrificing your sanity, your self-worth, and your future on the altar of a broken promise. This isn't love. It’s a cycle of chaos and manipulation. One day they're telling you you're the greatest thing that'