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Excuses Are Just Fancy Lies You Tell Yourself
Let’s cut the crap: excuses are just well-dressed lies. They’re your mind’s Gucci knockoffs - shiny on the outside, useless on the inside. And the truth? Excuses are the reason you’re not where you say you want to be. You’re not “too busy” - you’re scrolling TikTok at midnight. You’re not “too tired” - you just watched another Netflix series you’ll forget in two weeks. You’re not “bad at relationships” - you just keep choosing walking red flags like it’s a sport. Sound harsh

Coach Vess
Nov 273 min read


The Delusion of Constant Motion
Look around. Everyone is " swamped ." Everyone is " slammed ." We wear our overflowing calendars and endless to-do lists as a badge of honor, a public declaration of our importance. We’re all running a race to nowhere, convinced that the more sweat we produce, the more valuable we become. But here’s the cold, hard truth: a lot of you aren’t hard workers. You’re just busy fools. You’re a master of motion, not of action. You spend all day checking emails, attending pointless me

Coach Vess
Nov 254 min read


From Stuck to Unstoppable: How to Spot When It’s Time for a Career Pivot
Here’s the deal: you’re not broken, unmotivated, or lazy. You’re just stuck. And if you’ve been dragging yourself to work every morning with the enthusiasm of a sloth at a spin class, it might be the universe’s way of saying: “Hey, buddy - it’s pivot o’clock.” But most people ignore the signs because change is scary. So they stay in jobs that drain them, careers that don’t fit anymore, and identities that expired five years ago. Let’s get brutally honest. If you’ve been waiti

Coach Vess
Nov 183 min read


Stop Glorifying Burnout: Why Hustle Culture is Killing Your Career
The Hustle Lie We’re All Buying You’ve heard it a million times: “Sleep is for the weak,” “Hustle harder,” “If you’re not burning out, you’re not trying.” Cute. Toxic. And a lie. Hustle culture loves to dress exhaustion up as ambition so we keep grinding until we’re empty. But here’s the truth nobody flattering influencers will tell you: burnout doesn’t prove your worth - it erases it. It destroys creativity, torpedoes performance, and makes you the exact opposite of indispen

Coach Vess
Nov 115 min read


The "I Love My Job" Lie: A Wake-Up Call for Your Career
Telling yourself “I love my job” doesn’t mean you actually do. If you’re stressed, stuck, or dreading Mondays, it’s time for a wake-up call. This isn’t about quitting blindly - it’s about spotting the lies you’re telling yourself, reclaiming your career, and finally building a work life that actually energizes you. Ready to stop faking it and start thriving?

Coach Vess
Sep 275 min read
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