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The Myth of the "Right Feeling"
Let’s talk about the biggest lie you've ever told yourself. It’s the one that goes something like this: "I’ll do it when I feel motivated." You’re waiting for a bolt of lightning, a sudden surge of inspiration, a chorus of angels singing your name as you lace up your running shoes or open that textbook. You’ve convinced yourself that you need to be “in the mood” to start a new project, hit the gym, or clean out your garage. Here’s the tough-love truth you need to hear: Motiva

Coach Vess
Apr 243 min read


The "Yes" Lie: Why Your People-Pleasing Habit is Ruining Your Life
Let's talk about the word you just can't seem to stop using: "Yes." You've become so accustomed to saying it that you’ve forgotten how to say "No." You're a people-pleaser, and it's not a virtue; it's a disease. It's a chronic condition of putting everyone else's needs before your own, and it's leaving you exhausted, resentful, and completely drained. This isn't about being nice; it's about a deep-seated fear of rejection and a lack of self-worth. You think you're being a goo

Coach Vess
Apr 213 min read


The Great Escape: Why Quitting Your Job Might Be the Toughest Act of Self-Care
Let's talk about the thing you’re too scared to say out loud: "I want to quit my job." I know, I know. It's a scary thought. It goes against everything you’ve been taught about stability, responsibility, and the sacred cow of a full-time salary. But what if staying is costing you more than leaving? What if the real act of irresponsibility isn’t quitting, but staying in a place that’s actively killing your spirit, crushing your mental health, and stunting your professional gro

Coach Vess
Feb 183 min read


Excuses Are Just Fancy Lies You Tell Yourself
Let’s cut the crap: excuses are just well-dressed lies. They’re your mind’s Gucci knockoffs - shiny on the outside, useless on the inside. And the truth? Excuses are the reason you’re not where you say you want to be. You’re not “too busy” - you’re scrolling TikTok at midnight. You’re not “too tired” - you just watched another Netflix series you’ll forget in two weeks. You’re not “bad at relationships” - you just keep choosing walking red flags like it’s a sport. Sound harsh

Coach Vess
Nov 27, 20253 min read


The Delusion of Constant Motion
Look around. Everyone is " swamped ." Everyone is " slammed ." We wear our overflowing calendars and endless to-do lists as a badge of honor, a public declaration of our importance. We’re all running a race to nowhere, convinced that the more sweat we produce, the more valuable we become. But here’s the cold, hard truth: a lot of you aren’t hard workers. You’re just busy fools. You’re a master of motion, not of action. You spend all day checking emails, attending pointless me

Coach Vess
Nov 25, 20254 min read


Movement is Medicine: Exercise for Your Mind, Not Just Your Jeans
Let’s talk about the gym elephant in the room. Most people still think exercise is all about one thing: shrinking, tightening, toning, or getting “summer body ready.” Cute idea, but also… outdated and toxic. Movement is not punishment for what you ate last night. It’s not a tool to make you smaller so the world approves of you. Here’s the truth bomb: movement is medicine. Not just for your body, but for your brain, your mood, your relationships, your career - your entire damn

Coach Vess
Nov 13, 20253 min read


What is Life Coaching and how do you know you need it
Are you looking to unlock your potential and achieve your goals in life, wellness, or career? Look no further than a specialised life...

Coach Vess
Jun 21, 20242 min read
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