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The Myth of the "Right Feeling"
Let’s talk about the biggest lie you've ever told yourself. It’s the one that goes something like this: "I’ll do it when I feel motivated." You’re waiting for a bolt of lightning, a sudden surge of inspiration, a chorus of angels singing your name as you lace up your running shoes or open that textbook. You’ve convinced yourself that you need to be “in the mood” to start a new project, hit the gym, or clean out your garage. Here’s the tough-love truth you need to hear: Motiva

Coach Vess
6 days ago3 min read


The "I Can’t" Lie: Why Your Victim Mindset is Your Toughest Boss
Stop right there! I hear you. The whining, the excuses, the constant loop of "I can’t," "It's too hard," and "This always happens to me." Let's get one thing straight: you're not a victim. You are the problem, but here's the good news - you're also the solution. That cozy little victim mindset you've wrapped yourself in is nothing more than a cage you built yourself. It's your toughest boss, and it's holding you back from personal growth, career success, and a life you actual

Coach Vess
Mar 133 min read
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